In 1959, amidst the stringent racial divides of colonial Kenya, John Kimuyu Kalendo, a visually impaired Kenyan, and Ruth Holloway, a British missionary, entered into the country’s first registered interracial marriage.
Their union not only defied societal norms but also challenged the entrenched colonial biases of the time.
Born in Mwala, Machakos County, Kimuyu lost his sight at the age of two due to an illness.
Despite the limited educational opportunities for Africans during that era, his determination led him to Thika in 1949, where he enrolled at the Thika School for the Blind.
Although health challenges forced him to pause his studies in 1951, he returned in 1953, demonstrating remarkable academic prowess
Meeting Ruth Holloway
Ruth Holloway hailed from Nottingham, England, and had undergone missionary training at the Salvation Army’s William Booth College in London.
In line with her training, she was encouraged to immerse herself in the local communities she served.
Upon her assignment to Kenya, she began teaching braille at the Thika School for the Blind, where she met Kimuyu.
Their shared commitment to education and mutual respect blossomed into a profound love.
Challenges and marriage
Their decision to marry was met with significant opposition.
Interracial unions were rare and often frowned upon, both by colonial authorities and segments of the local population.
Ruth faced severe consequences, including the loss of her job.
However, undeterred, she traveled back to the UK to inform her superiors and family of her intentions, only to encounter further backlash.
Demonstrating resilience, Ruth purchased a wedding ring, concealed it within a cake, and returned to Kenya by ship.
On January 23, 1959, amidst threats and societal disapproval, Kimuyu and Ruth were married in a ceremony attended by only two of Kimuyu’s female relatives.
Legacy
Kimuyu Kalendo passed away in November 2023 and was laid to rest in Makueni County.
His life remains a testament to resilience and the enduring power of love in the face of adversity.
